how to build a habit

how to build a habit

let's talk habit building, a lot of people want to build better habits, but they don't know where to start. we'll help you understand the process of building a habit and show you how easy it can be.

it's easier than you think.

building a habit is easier than you might think. it takes 21 days to build a new habit, and no matter how small your change may be, it's always possible to make progress in your life. you don't have to do everything at once—if you want to eat healthier but feel overwhelmed by the number of choices available, start by changing one of your meals each day. or if you're trying to get more exercise and find it difficult to find time in your schedule, commit yourself to only 20 minutes per week (or even less!). As long as you're making progress toward your goal and not giving up on yourself when things get tough, that's all that matters!

1. start small

the first step in building a habit is deciding what the habit will be. this is where many people get stuck because they don’t know where to start. the best way to go about choosing your first habit is by starting small and focusing on something achievable.

for example, if you want to start lifting weights as part of your exercise routine, don't worry about doing squats or deadlifts right away—start with something more basic like push-ups or planks! you can always build up from there once you've got the hang of it.

you also needn't worry about whether this new behavior will help you achieve any particular goal; all that matters at this stage is that you're able to successfully do what you set out to do every day (at least once). if nothing else comes of it beyond that small victory itself—well then so much the better!

2. keep a daily record

it's important to track your progress so you can see what's working and what isn't. but don't get too caught up in that—after all, it's your habit, not a performance to be judged by others or yourself. the only person that matters is you!

here are some tips for how to track your habit more effectively:

track the right things. you probably want to know if you ate vegetables today and how many steps you took toward meeting your fitness goal of 10,000 steps per day (the recommended amount). 

don't forget about other important metrics like water consumption or time spent reading or meditating—you might learn something when looking back at the data later on! remember that making goals is all about setting yourself up for success and finding ways around potential obstacles; tracking everything will help make sure this happens!

3. reward yourself for progress

rewards need to be meaningful, but not too big. in general, the more rewarding something is, the less likely we are to stick with it. after all, that's why we have a "honeymoon period" for new habits: at first, we're excited about them and don't notice their difficulty; but as time goes on (and our enthusiasm fades), they become increasingly difficult, and unappealing.

reward yourself frequently—and consistently—for progress toward your goal. the more often you reward yourself for progress toward your overall goal (for example: exercising three times per week), the better you'll feel about getting things done in the long run.

your rewards should be specific to the habit you're building (you can't use "i'm going running" as a reward if you never do this!).

4. make it a time-based challenge

another great way to set up a habit is by making it a time-based challenge. these types of challenges are very easy to create, and they’re great for people who aren’t sure how they’ll feel about a new habit or routine in the long run.

the basic idea behind this method is that you choose an activity that you want to make part of your life, and then set an amount of time each day (a week, month, etc.) where you must do that activity to earn the points for it. you can also set up other incentives if you want; for example: if I do 40 pushups every day for 10 days straight, then I get my favorite treat! 

5. get a partner

your partner can be anyone who has a similar goal and is willing to work towards it with you. they don't have to be a professional trainer, but they should know what they're doing and how to help you achieve your goals.

  • if you go out on a run with someone else, each person will be less likely to back down when things get tough. and if one of them gets tired or injured, the other is there to encourage them on; they won't let their friend quit before finishing their workout because they know how important it is for both of them!
  • you'll also motivate each other in terms of staying focused on the task at hand (i.e., working out). your partner could offer tips or tricks that might even increase your productivity while exercising—or maybe they'll provide constructive criticism about what works best for them so that together you can find a routine that fits both needs equally well! this could also help prevent injuries by giving specific feedback about technique when moving equipment around during workouts too."

you can do it!

if you're feeling overwhelmed by the task of building a habit, remember that there's no reason to feel intimidated. it might seem overwhelming at first, but there are small steps you can take that will help you get started and stay on track. to build a good habit, start small, and work your way up. give yourself rewards for progress made toward building the habit and keep records of what works for keeping yourself motivated (and hopefully avoid some pitfalls too).

it's important to be patient with yourself when trying to form new habits—they don't happen overnight! but with time and dedication, even the most challenging habits can become easy parts of your daily routine.

I hope this guide has given you some insight into how to build a habit. it’s not as hard as it sounds, and if you get stuck with any of these steps, remember that there are plenty of tools out there that can help—some are even designed specifically for this purpose!


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